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the 3 things...


Today went out bugis to c stuff to buy...than went off to excercise but couldnt cuz i haven recovered from the other day yet...still got lots things to buy...n must do sth abt my face...
getting worse!! aaaaaaa!!!



possessiveness
jealousy 
controlling



all is the result of fear at the core...
so if a guy is controlling in an unhealthy or wrong way...
he's a chicken!!!


But hold up with the labelling for a moment...
how do guys deal with tis in a healthy way?
if he dont know wat would u do to teach him?


tis might be a draft answer...is simple actually...talk your fear out!!!
like...if its me i'll be like...not happy, say ah?! im sure we can work sth out so tat we can become more emotionally closer n understand each other better...wont take long anyway...


esp. when u get deep into a relationship...BOTH the couple will have fear when u go deep...like hello, RELATIONSHIP...just the word itself tells more than 1 involved...wat if both the ppl had the same fear?...imagine, if u talk it out heart to heart n than how would u feel after tat??? feel better rite?...more closer rite?...cool rite?



another thing...we guys thought to "be a man!!" tat notion n all the bravodavo in itself says sth like "u dont fear cuz u strong" or sth...tats bullshit!! I notice the systemic perspective affects guys tis way...so they dont open up n say but do all kinds of other shit...cuz NOW aft tis influence em they scared they "lose their manhood" or sth...your manhood is safe in-between your legs...have more faith in yourselves guys...


every human being got fear...but to work on tat fear is the more impt thing...is wat really matters...and don't thing guys don't get scared...all of us get scared shit n start thinking too much...its how we dont allow it to takeover us n handle tat emotion tat defines us diff. from the next guy...


next post on fighting conflict fairly n facts on love in psychology i found in net...oh im glad me mom n dad back to proper talking terms aft soooooo long (2 years)...tank u allah (god)!!!

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